You're not a lady, you're a drama queen!

4/26/2013- Friday started out GREAT! It was my bestie's- Z- BIRTHDAY! This is the entire reason I was visiting. In the morning Z and I took her girls to lunch and to Target to spend some of their gift cards. Around 4:30 she and I got in the convertible and headed to her other bestie’s house to get ready for Z’s party. While the two of them styled their long locks, I played with F’s two new Chihuahua puppies. OMG! I seriously fell in love with them. Their names are Tattoo (he’s black with white markings) and Chipotle (he’s brown with white markings) and they are so damn little and cute and cuddly and silly. I renamed them George and Max respectively- though I don’t think I told F I renamed them! LOL

We left F’s and head to Chuy’s for dinner around 6:45. It was great because Z didn't know most of the group was meeting us there. She was surprised! We drank, ate, laughed, took a few pics and left. We had plans to hit a country bar or two. We were all ready to put on our dancing shoes and have an epic night.

9:45 pm- At the first bar we all got in free- Ladies Night! Woohoo! Kinda of dead though. We understood why when we got further in. It was old man night. One guy was celebrating his 70^th Birthday. I don’t think there was a man in that bar that was under 50, with most of them in their late 50’s. Don’t get me wrong, I love cowboys, but these men were no George Strait! Not even close. They did give us some good laughs though!

So we hoofed it over to a younger bar. It was packed but they were playing music we could dance too and we did. Most of us were having a great time. Liquor was being consumed, dancing and flirting was happening and laughter was ringing out. We even got Z out on the dance floor once or twice- she thinks she can’t dance but she can with some liquid courage under her belt. Z’s party was going along well!

It was around 1 o’clock in the morning when it happened. One female (#1) got pissed at another (#3) for supposedly leading on the only guy in the group. Words were tossed back and forth between some of the females- mostly #2 screaming at #3 and her friend #4. I wanted nothing to do with it. This shit is so fucking high school it isn’t funny. I was trying to get some of the group to leave. Then #1 decided she needed to throw some punches at #3. Luckily a few other men jumped in and prevented real damage from being done. I forced #1 and #2 and the other 7 of us out of the bar to head home.

WTH? This is Z’s birthday party and suddenly it’s a smack down? What gave you the right to 

wreck her birthday party? And excuse me, #1 and #2, you two want to act all uppity and judgmental- OH HELL NO! You two are the pot calling the kettle black. You have no room, I mean NOT AN INCH, to talk. You do the same thing as you’re accusing #3 of. Its okay for you to have extramarital affairs or be the woman on the side, but it’s wrong for someone else??? I don’t give a flying flip if you choose to do that but don’t go acting all high and mighty when someone you don’t know supposedly does the same shit as you. And don’t act like you were trying to protect the guy. He doesn’t need that kind of protection. He wasn’t under the assumptions you jumped to.  

And as for the guy involved, he wasn’t being led on in his own words. Liquor was flowing and flirting was happening. He and #3 were fine with what was happening. #1 your nose didn’t belong in it, you started the ball rolling because you weren’t the center of attention. Oh wait, that’s right…. That guy is your cash flow. You don’t want anyone to think you’re together- you’re very adamant in saying NO to anyone who asks, but the minute a woman shows interest you get bent out of shape. You can’t have it both ways #1. If you want him, act like it. Don’t just use him for his money. I wonder how much you had to do with his past relationships failing.

I am not friends with #1, #2 or #3 on Facebook or in life. I’d like to be friends with #3. She has a story and I’d like to be a friend to her. As for the other two… you both don’t like me because I see how it really is. Incidentally, #1 was involved in drama one other night we all went out last summer. #2 you didn’t like when I called you out that night. Yes you’re cordial to my face but I’m pretty confident you talk smack about someone you know very little about. I don’t know you well, but I know enough to say I don’t approve of what you do. And #1 you don’t like me at all even though after just meeting you last time (June 2012) I had your back and defended you. After this incident- not ever going to happen again.

What truly pissed me off was that the guy and #3 did all the apologizing. #1 and #2 didn’t get off their high horses at all. They are the ones who not only owe Z an apology for starting shit on, what up to that point, had been a damn good night, but they also owe apologies to #3 and the guy. I know it’s never going to happen though. And that angers me. Just because you were drinking doesn’t mean you have the right to ruin someone else’s celebration. Grow up and apologize. Act like adults and take responsibility for your screw ups and insecurities. It’ll get you further in life than constantly starting drama!

So #3 if you read this, hit me up with a friend request. I’d like to get to know you better and hopefully the next time I’m in Dallas go out again.

And Z, I hope you had a great night. You looked gorgeous all night! I am so glad I was there to celebrate your birthday!!! I love you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!